peace and hotep,
make a change, you know tayimba placed a comma in the wrong location so you unfortunately misinterpreted him ( i will place the comma in the right place;
"naturally, in reclaiming the best wisdom of our ancestors, we have to examine the social conditioning that makes us prefer slim, european looking people, ____above others whose quality of character may very well be much higher."
get it , ____above others whose quality of character may very well be much higher. this does not imply what you thought. it seems that we are always at each other throat because of the 'willie lynch syndrome'. the captives are pitted against their own differences and given over to trust only their masters.
yan, interesting but the doctor has more issues than i do. wow, check her out;
*what impact did the nightmare of slavery have on the black female regarding its attitude towards its body and sex? (does the author even care about what impact did the nightmare of slavery have on the black male regarding its attitude towards its body and sex?) it seems that she is biased. please correct me if i am wrong.
firstly, she keeps referring to african male and female captives as man and woman. this is far from the truth. we were kept in amorica to be laborers and breeders. we were and are in many respects still negroes, the beast. how dare the author elevate us animals automatically and magically to higher status within this monsterous society which she terms 'civilization'.
secondly, her analysis begins withe "Let's first examine the Black woman". seems reminiscent of 'let us make man'.
1.men must realize that the black female has a unique perspective. ---
so does the black male.
2.a lack of knowledge about the black female's history.----
which is the same lack of knowledge about the black males history.
3.'white' men and black female were the major factors in creating the brain damage the black male has today.---
but the question is pointed to black males specifically.
4.black females do not embrace their sexuality as freely and honestly as other women.-----
too general. other women like who?
5.it being made to feel ashamed of its body, and due to its history of rape at a very early age.------
the same happens to 'white' women and all females are not raped.
6.'white' men had their very first (and best) sexual encounters with a black female.-------
why emphasize 'best' if the autor is victimizing black females. tell that to poor 'whites'.
7.they raped the young black female, usually by the age of 13.-------
and poor 'whites' raped 13 year old white females. again there are no black females who escaped being raped.
8.when the 'white' men finished he would pat the Black man on the head.-----
we do not have a general history of being men in amorica. we are captives, generally speaking. the author pretends that the 'black man' exists in amorica. very few black men made it past the middle passage and beyond. instead of bashing who she is actually mad at (the so-called successful 'made in amerca' black 'man'), the author spews her venom at black male 'beasts of burden and breeders.
9. "Massa, I hope you liked it." The 'white' man would respond, "Yes, good pussy boy,".-------
now, i could never get away withe such language on this site without being censored. this is as allegorical as some biblical passages. excuse me, but i need a reference.
10.a black female's sexual experiences..........is still haunted by the effects of slavery on her sexuality. ------
so, how can the author negate the effect on black males.
11.black girls and black women are still the most frequent victims of rape and assault. ------
could i see the documentation for that accusation? who is it against males in general.
12.the Black woman has been portrayed very negatively in the media. -------
the demonization of the black male image began after the civil war. during and after reconstruction the kkk assisted in such propaganda like 'the negro, the beast', and 'birth of a nation'. the demonization of black male and female images continue to this very day. this article /book is a prime example as well as what black 'men and women' have to do to get an oscar these days.
13.Only recently having seen her passionately making love.---haille berry, right?
14.America has done a great job of selling the 'white' woman.----if i was stupid, this sell-out author would have me sold. she is doing a wonderful job of selling the 'white' woman and she expect the few african men and women in amorica to buy her bs. fransis cress welsing should slap the excrement out of Rosie Milligan, Ph.D. i mean slap here withe some knowledge about the subject.
15.Girls and women who are victims of physical and sexual abuse have difficulty in the areas of sensuality and sexual intimacy.-----
yes, for the few abused ones this is true. but generally this is not the case.
16.black females continue to search for love and black males to search for sex. everone who are familair withe the 'vagina monologue' know that its is only women who perpectuate the vulgar language for their sex organ. the book 'in search of good pussy' is very critical of how female are still making bad choices in males. the term is so misleading that men treat it like a soft furry inanimate object. serious mis-education.
17.females get sex and a baby and left alone. black females want to be loved, not sexed.------
unraped black females and males behaving like the 'breeders' they are. black females want 'jesus'. a savior. their own standards of beauty reflect this.
18. black females want their males to come home and help them formulate a definition of Black man and Black woman that works for them. -------
first realise that if you are behaving like animal, you can not be 'men and women'. men and women behave differently. they are responsible and they will go to war if you offend them. therefore, there are very few black men and women in amorica. lots of cattle though.
19.the black male needs sex as a means of determining his self worth, and the black female because of her history, is afraid of it.------
see # 18.
20.is sex that important to a black man? -----
21.sex ........is the only factor in our civilized societies...---
our civilized societies? ya'll , the author is 'washed'. we have witnessed civilization in this lifetime.
22.sex is the only form of gratification within reach for the economically deprived male. ------
what ever happen to heroin. it is cheap,affordable and easy to cop.
23.sex is the only form of gratification within reach for the economically deprived male. ------
what ever happen to heroin. it is cheap,affordable and easy to cop.
24.The vagina become the hideout for Black men....----
check out the vagina monologue.
25. remember hearing men who lived in the south asking man who visited the north, "male, did you get you some 'white' pussy?" ------
i know the author is not making fun of emmit till. people in the south are still afraid to talk like that. 'without sanctuary'? i think the author needs some 'white' pussy.
26.A black man like any other man, wants the best that life has to offer.------
no, a black man and woman want freedom, justice and equality. however, selling books affords one the best that life has to offer.
27.some believe that the 'white' woman may be submissive to the black male........-----
yes, i see them covering or changing the position of their purses, locking their car doors, or avoiding the elavato whenever a black male appears.
28. ......and a Virgin Mary (once she gets out of bed). ----
the author has to be a fat slob and a doctor. show me a picture of this female.
29. why black male (or female) cross the color line.-----
why doe the chicken cross the road? heck,to get to the other side. still looking for a diana ross or oj style of freedum.
30.simple as "opposites attract" to "the black man wants to get revenge." -------
i guess the same applies to black females. or is this just a
BLACK MALE BASHING. victims blaming victims instead of the system of racism('white' supremacy) all of us are subject to exept the author.
31.after reading this entire book, you truly understand the Black male's relationship with the black females and why he chooses the 'white' woman. --------
but i would recommend a better book
THE UNITED INDEPENDENT COMPENSATORY CODE/SYSTEM/CONCEPT which is a textbook for thought, speech, and/or action for victims or racism('white' supremacy) by neely fuller, jr.
neely fuller jr's basic premise is this:
"if you do not understand 'white' supremacy(as racism)-----what it is, and how it works------
everything else that you understand,
will only confuse you".
on page 44 the author lists
Four Basic "Show-Offisms" By/Among the Victims of Racism being:
1. "Showing-Off" (to each other) the things that 'white' people have allowed them to obtain.
2. "Showing-Off" (to each other) the information that 'white' people have allowed them to obtain.
3. "Showing-Off" (to each other) their ability to belittle (each other.)
4. "Showing-Off" (to each other) their ability to make sexual impressions on each other.
his explanation is that many non'white' people spend much time/energy/money "Showing-Off" (to each other).
they do this as a means of trying to make the overall effects of racism ('white'supremacy) on their "personal affairs" seem unimportant and/or non-existent.
this 'show-offism' serves no constructive purpose. it only helps non-'white' people to become more pitiful, primitive, stupid and/or silly, incomparison to the activities of 'white'supremacist, and/or, in comparison to 'white' people in general.
on page 64 neely fuller jr states:
DO NOT ACCUSE ANY NON-'WHITE' PERSON. OR PERSONS, OF BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY OF YOUR ECONOMIC PROBLEMS.
reason/explanation being that in a socio-material system dominated by 'white' supremacists(racist), the 'white' supremacist are responsible for all problems involving the people who are subject to them.
*do black men perceive ‘white’ women as more beautiful, sensuous, and submissive than black women? --------
No , but the author was probably jilted by a young black male “professional” at some point in her life. Maybe it was oj….
I want to make it understood that I am not against interracial marriages;-------
everyone should have the right to choose his or her own soul mate.------
even if they are insecure, fat and sloppy, professional black male haters. i don't think that fit african amorican women have issues withe immature males.
But we are in great need of examining the reasons why black men are choosing 'white' women... -----
if i am going to get paid......Rosie Milligan, Ph.D
bottom line: a real man does not engage in detrimental acts.
Why Do Black Men Choose White Women?
©1998/1999 Rosie Milligan, Ph.D
SHE'S GOT TO BE '''''''''''''''''''''''''white'