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Father X
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« on: November 07, 2007, 03:05:19 AM »

BLACK WOMEN Dating and MARRYING WHITE MEN#2.


Before I begin this post I would like to thank everyone for their response
to my previous threads.

WARNING
the information in this post may not be suitable for all readers.
Reader discretions are advised.

The Blackwoman will date, and as reported daily, will marry a white man. She finds in her relationship with the white man perhaps the answer to all her dreams and fantasies.
First, he is removed from the black experience, and brings a new set of rules to the involvement. Second, he represents the culmination of every movie and T.V. show she has ever seen featuring a gallant white beau who knows how to treat a woman and swoops in always coming to her rescue. Third, he is an alternative set of men whom she
Believes can be utilized because of the non availability of Black men.

Now that there appears to be fewer Blackmen, and she can’t get along with any of them, she is perusing other races to see what she can see.

When the Blackwoman gets with a white man she may manufacture a complete new set of vowels which she uses to construct her new light and airy “proper” voice. She irresistibly become ever so amused by his jokes and pretends to like the things he does.
She becomes an actress of sorts and she relaxes a bit because the white man does not know the full story of her failure with the Blackman. Since the white man does not know the ins and outs of Black intimacy he is more tolerant of her and they both enjoy the novelty.

She can wear as much make-up as she desires and to the white man this is normal. While the Blackwoman is known to ignore a Blackman on a street corner, in an elevator or on the subway, she seems always ready with an eager appealing smile when a white man, especially one in a suit and tie, tries to make light conversation with her.

She appears to be flattered and falls into crisp bright personality. Her smile is sometimes so instant it looks like a flash of sparkling white snow, blushing and appreciative.
If she decides to date him, later on, she is seen to be overly affectionate in public. There
May be hugging, provocative kissing or fondling in public.
She is willing to ignore many of the white man’s shortcomings regarding wardrobe, language, music, car, or job.

She convinces herself that he is normal and she must accept him as he is, and above all he is just another man. When she is with him she thinks she is finally free.
Free of the Blackman’s hassles and free of her own history.

She is proud of the him in front of her family and friends or on the other extreme; she knows that her social integration relationship will not be accepted, so she keeps it a secret. He is considered special to her and automatically “knows how to treat a woman.”
Certainly better than a Blackman does-she thinks.

CONCLUSION
The Blackwoman believes that she has reached the ultimate pinnacle of personal developmental achievement when she arrives at the point of seriously considering dating a white man and if watched closely she can be seen acting out the mannerisms of white women. She has absolutely forgiven the white man for enslaving her people, and the white man has forgiven himself for enslaving Black people. But the poor Black woman has not forgiven herself for being a slave.
 Huh
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Eja
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« Reply #1 on: November 07, 2007, 10:42:53 AM »

 Grin..  Cheesy   Clapping  Cheesy

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The Blackwoman believes that she has reached the ultimate pinnacle of personal developmental achievement when she arrives at the point of seriously considering dating a white man and if watched closely she can be seen acting out the mannerisms of white women. She has absolutely forgiven the white man for enslaving her people, and the white man has forgiven himself for enslaving Black people. But the poor Black woman has not forgiven herself for being a slave.

Truth be told, the sentence in bold (and in fact the whole article) could also be applied to certain Black men.
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Killuminati33
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« Reply #2 on: November 09, 2007, 02:24:59 AM »

Black wemon with white men, that is increasing every year but don't worry to much. I think white wemon being with black men still far exceeds the rate at which white men or black females may be dating or having a great time with each other. Maybe white men don't find black females attractive, I do but the constant images of video girls,exploitation,Disproportionate sizes of there asses,that gross booty dance,BET late night has made me stick with white and Asian wemon. Black wemon and white men are probably the least comon couple, its probably more than asian men and white wemon. Most of the black wemon who have white boyfriends are probably lighter skinned.
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wezekana
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« Reply #3 on: November 10, 2007, 12:22:09 PM »

The rate of black women engaging and coupling with white men is increasing every year, huh? Man, Killu, I'm just glad we have you there to study, keep up with, and crunch the numbers and data. We've really been lax in our duties and this... This truly is important stuff.
Listen, I can appreciate what you have said...

Maybe white men don't find black females attractive, I do but...

I overstand, Killu. You belie and then deny your true motives, intentions and feelings. Hey, man, most white men do, and that especially where it may concern discovery or revelation of their desires and lusts for black women. White society has taken a stand against pluralism in this fashion and has openly denounced matters and activities such as these. Shallow people frequently berate what they cannot have or secure. Don Imus notwithstanding.

That gross booty dance you talk of is an issuance of culture for black peoples, you bigot. The 'disproportionate' (That's a nice, big word, Killu. You go boy!) size of the African buttock is scientifically termed 'steatopygia' and is a common characteristic of African females, and (in case you didn't know, white boy) is a feature openly treasured by most African males and secretly coveted by most whites.

Unlike a lot of white women (who are usually as flat as a board, sort'a pear shaped and quite often devoid of any distinctly womanly characteristics) black women are, more often than not, more abundantly endowed with feminine attributes and shape. Incidentally, I have overheard many white men speaking of how they are attracted to a "Nice tight butt.." and how they favored women with buttocks "like a 10 year old boy". Weird, strange and quite deviant sexually, huh? Can you tell me, Killu, what is that all about? You guys sure are some quirky little jaggers.

Your assumption about black women who maintain relationships with white-boys being 'probably' lighter skinned, is ludicrous and one of the keenest insights into the depths of your own personal racism. I bet next you'll contend that lighter skinned black are more attractive to look at than their darker counterparts. Do you not recognize the similarities between your current mode of thinking and the of philosophies of Willie Lynch? YOU ARE SCARRED, HOMIE. Take some time and reassess your modes, methods, mannerisms and feelings. You are not doing anyone, including yourself, any favors here, Killu.

It is apparent that you fervently wish to interaction with black peoples and are upset because your attempts have been, well... thus far, quite stifled and a bit dry. I know you don't know it yet, but, unfortunately, this is mostly due to your own mental and emotional constraints and immaturity. Give yourself a good going over and ask yourself, "What black female (Asian, white or otherwise, for that matter) is gonna want a confused, egotistical, neo pomp like myself?" The time for change is now. Do it for all the right reasons, Killu.

Respect.


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Killuminati33
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« Reply #4 on: November 10, 2007, 07:25:44 PM »

Hey man...maybe you missunderstood me I mean black women who shake there booty who like like this is pretty sick.

http://i103.photobucket.com/albums/m129/royce31604/BigBooty115.jpg (Not Porn)

Most black women don't have a butt that big anyway....I was talking about black girls like the one in that picture. Which I think is...gross and unattractive, but that just my opinion.

Ive seen plenty of white women with nice behinds, maybe not as many are like a black girls but it's good enough for me.

Only reason why I said it's mostly light skinned black women who date white men is because they are more likely to assimilate into white culture than darker skinned ones. Look at Halle Berry shes always with a white man.

Haha, plenty of women have wanted to be with me before even black girls (not many) have showed interest in me. I say not many because it is a fact that not many white men and black women engage in sexual relations or date black women..even though it's on the rise it's not so significant yet. The things is, no female knows I talk like this or post things like this on this forum. So if no female knows what I believe then why would she not want to be with me? If I ever wanted to reveal it, I would after she loves me and trusts me.

My interactions with black people have been fine I have black friends, made some fear me, Got jumped and beaten by more than one at once. It depends on the individual and how they act. The ones I have had conflicts with all act like a stereotypical black man that are commonly referred to as the N word. If I say it Id probably get banned. Have a nice night  Two Thumbs.
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wezekana
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« Reply #5 on: November 11, 2007, 12:07:24 AM »

Nothing for nothing... I just wonder what it is you think YOU look like as you sit there calling other lifeforms gross. The only thing 'gross' about any life form would be the open misconduct of harboring a selfish disregard for others. In my youth I was in the firm opinion that white people where disgustingly pale, morally and emotionally derelict, physically unfit and foul smelling individuals. The thing that I had not realized, at the time (and this fact you also seem to be ignorant of) was that I had not met every single white person in the world and therefore could not factually come to such a conclusion.

Since then I have met many white people, from all walks of life and from all spheres of activity and have appreciated the opportunity to do so. Unfortunately, my opinion of them hasn't changed a whole bunch, but I have come to realize that there are exceptions to every rule. The Sister, Buffie (The Body) Carruth is, in my opinion, a stunningly beautiful woman, albeit misguided and evidently thoroughly perplexed as to her real worth as she shamelessly flaunts herself.

What you may misunderstand, Killu, is that she, or at least her body structure, is typical of African women and not a rarity. Regardless of what you may believe and contrary to what you, for some reason, think you know, the large majority of black women do indeed have large, muscular buttocks, notwithstanding certain factors (i.e., diet, fitness level, and genealogy) just like lots of white people have no lips and, from what I hear, minuscule male reproductive organs.

Therein may be the keys to overstanding the lack of interest paid to white males by black women, beside the stupefyingly obvious factors like vast cultural differences and an absurdly fascist, structurally racist society. Additionally, your supposition about light skinned black women dating white men because they are more likely to assimilate into white culture is without merit. The facts simply do not support your hypothesis. It has been my limited (but by far more extensive than your own) experience that dark skinned sister by far, seem more apt to go after white guys than their lighter skinned counterparts. I, myself, am not a light-skinned or dark skinned woman and I do not presume to know the real reason for this phenomenon, but I'm pretty sure that it is not because light-skinned black want to 'pass' themselves off as white and marry themselves away into whitedom.

Contrary to your assumptions, your interactions here in this forum with black people have not been 'fine' and given your current attitude, and from what you have intimated about your deceptive practices and how you willfully withhold your true feelings from the 'females' and 'black friends' that you claim you have, I can easily overstand why you may have been and may once again be 'jumped and beaten'. Everything depends on the individual and how each performs independently as well as collectively.

The first breakdown in the diplomatic process is a lack of respect. Your 'conflict' with me (evident because we do not agree fundamentally with one another, or at least not I with you) does not mark me as one of the stereotypical black men commonly referred to, by racist bigots, as the N word. Furthermore, in an interpersonal setting, free of the constraints of distance and space, were you to refer to me in such atrocious terms, you would get much more than just banned.

Nice night back at cha'.
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« Reply #6 on: November 11, 2007, 01:34:48 PM »

 [smiley=2thumbsup.gif]Blessed words Wezekana, I am soooo fed up with people who try to disguise their own insecurities and hate by using the played out over exhausted " im not racist i got a black friend" good luck wid yuh friend ,who for what ever reason  then makes you believe that you can justify your remarks because of your "friendship" with a brother.
African woman have always been pro active in their duties ie working the Land  with their infants secured on their back ,if they never had such a curvacious back side the baby wouldnt really be secure huh.
Some people need to  take the plank outta thier own eye before the look for the splinter in anothers.
I give thanks for yuh words Wezekana spoken with majesty and grace

Love and Raspect
Empress I Two Thumbs
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Killuminati33
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« Reply #7 on: November 11, 2007, 05:37:55 PM »

Nothing for nothing... I just wonder what it is you think YOU look like as you sit there calling other lifeforms gross. The only thing 'gross' about any life form would be the open misconduct of harboring a selfish disregard for others. In my youth I was in the firm opinion that white people where disgustingly pale, morally and emotionally derelict, physically unfit and foul smelling individuals. The thing that I had not realized, at the time (and this fact you also seem to be ignorant of) was that I had not met every single white person in the world and therefore could not factually come to such a conclusion.

Since then I have met many white people, from all walks of life and from all spheres of activity and have appreciated the opportunity to do so. Unfortunately, my opinion of them hasn't changed a whole bunch, but I have come to realize that there are exceptions to every rule. The Sister, Buffie (The Body) Carruth is, in my opinion, a stunningly beautiful woman, albeit misguided and evidently thoroughly perplexed as to her real worth as she shamelessly flaunts herself.

What you may misunderstand, Killu, is that she, or at least her body structure, is typical of African women and not a rarity. Regardless of what you may believe and contrary to what you, for some reason, think you know, the large majority of black women do indeed have large, muscular buttocks, notwithstanding certain factors (i.e., diet, fitness level, and genealogy) just like lots of white people have no lips and, from what I hear, minuscule male reproductive organs.

Therein may be the keys to overstanding the lack of interest paid to white males by black women, beside the stupefyingly obvious factors like vast cultural differences and an absurdly fascist, structurally racist society. Additionally, your supposition about light skinned black women dating white men because they are more likely to assimilate into white culture is without merit. The facts simply do not support your hypothesis. It has been my limited (but by far more extensive than your own) experience that dark skinned sister by far, seem more apt to go after white guys than their lighter skinned counterparts. I, myself, am not a light-skinned or dark skinned woman and I do not presume to know the real reason for this phenomenon, but I'm pretty sure that it is not because light-skinned black want to 'pass' themselves off as white and marry themselves away into whitedom.

Contrary to your assumptions, your interactions here in this forum with black people have not been 'fine' and given your current attitude, and from what you have intimated about your deceptive practices and how you willfully withhold your true feelings from the 'females' and 'black friends' that you claim you have, I can easily overstand why you may have been and may once again be 'jumped and beaten'. Everything depends on the individual and how each performs independently as well as collectively.

The first breakdown in the diplomatic process is a lack of respect. Your 'conflict' with me (evident because we do not agree fundamentally with one another, or at least not I with you) does not mark me as one of the stereotypical black men commonly referred to, by racist bigots, as the N word. Furthermore, in an interpersonal setting, free of the constraints of distance and space, were you to refer to me in such atrocious terms, you would get much more than just banned.

Nice night back at cha'.

Ya I still think it's gross..but thats just my opinion and my preference, other men love that. She probably would not have gone far in her life if it wasn't for her butt. Obviously she doesn't represent the majority of black females, most ive seen don't have one that large. The reason why I said light skinned black females will probably go for white guys more than darker skinned is because they might have white relatives and might live in a neighborhood with a larger Caucasian population. I was only jumped by black people in the past because I refused to give them my money or any of my belongings.

Maybe white men do have "small reproductive organs". The myth that black men are so well endowed could be true I don't know. I have heard it stems from racism in an effort to make black men look like sex craved animals with large penises and it is continually exploited in pornography. Maybe thats true I don't know, nor do I care. Ive learned about those things in health class, eventually I found scientific studies done on that and it found black men are larger than whites averaging 7 inches compared to whites at 6. I don't know what credibility those studies have, nor do I care. Im not worried about myself anyway.

Yes my conflict with you is evident. You believe Black people are Superior to Whites and if you believe that then you obviously believe your are the superior race period. I will always maintain that all races are equal in there potential, no matter how racist I may seem I will always know that we are all human and part of this same family of beings. None of us has a right to be in a superior position to one another. But when I see black racists here finding there pseudo-science claims about there superiority I will disagree with that. If blacks where never enslaved these beliefs would never even exist. Its like a defense mechanism to white supremacy. A set of beliefs that will make yourself feel great and making your oppressor less than human jus t as they used to treat  you. Seems morel like revenge to me.
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wezekana
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« Reply #8 on: November 12, 2007, 11:51:47 AM »

You believe Black people are Superior to Whites and if you believe that then you obviously believe your are the superior race period.

No, I do not. I believe no such thing.
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« Reply #9 on: November 13, 2007, 01:59:22 AM »

to the wezekana,

respect for this... to tell the truth, i had the misconception that you were white. not that it would deem my respect, but i overstand your former posts a little better now.

kip burnin babylon down.

i had promised myself to avoid posting on topics that dealt with racial superiority and all these things i can never overstand. especially those in which the wise killuminati was involved. that one, the giant mounted on a grain of sand. he who teaches all, and learns from none; privy to the secrets of the ages; he who knows the secret language of reptiles or whatever.
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« Reply #10 on: November 14, 2007, 03:09:31 PM »

Ive seen you say enough racist things in that post about "who is really superior black or white"? I may say some racist things to so accusing you of that would make me a hypocrite. Though time and time again I have said all races are equal and I know that is the truth. Even though I may be racist myself sometimes it is out of anger against other people and does not go beyond that. Many of you here are racists more so than me people like melaninmagic,Horus and others who have all been involved in those black superiority posts are more racist than I will ever be. They stand by there racist beliefs with zeal. I probably not going to post here anymore, I don't speak in some secret reptile language either its an alien race not a white man...Ive had a lot of school work lately and Im starting university soon to study some lies.
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« Reply #11 on: November 14, 2007, 06:16:06 PM »

 IF A BLACK WOMAN DATESA WHITE MAN  SHE IS SICK!! COMP0LETELY SICK SHOULD BE SHOT OR HOSPITALIZED, IFA BLACK MAN DATES WHITE WOMEN, HE IS SICK AND DESERVES TO BE SHOT IN THE HEAD, EXECUTION STYLE. TRAITORS SHOULD BE DEALT ACCORDINGLY!! Undecided
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« Reply #12 on: November 14, 2007, 06:42:55 PM »

IF A BLACK WOMAN DATESA WHITE MAN  SHE IS SICK!! COMP0LETELY SICK SHOULD BE SHOT OR HOSPITALIZED, IFA BLACK MAN DATES WHITE WOMEN, HE IS SICK AND DESERVES TO BE SHOT IN THE HEAD, EXECUTION STYLE. TRAITORS SHOULD BE DEALT ACCORDINGLY!! Undecided

And if anyone listens to this guys angry rampage they are completely sick and should be shot in the head to.  Two Thumbs  Roll Eyes
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« Reply #13 on: November 14, 2007, 08:30:32 PM »

The Incitement of racism and murder is SHAMEFUL. Is it any wonder Iration is in such pain and suffering when all we can do Is INCITE IT. We are all rasponsible fi wha gwan inna di world.For the Godly and Ungodly WE ARE IN REVALATIION TIMES. WE SHALL ALL BE JUDGED BY JAH.Just remember the same scales yuh use to JUDGE yuh sistah's and Brothas is the same scales that YOU WILL BE JUDGED BY. All a we have a right to live and choose our life partners BLACK OR WHITE. If our own lives were so picture perfect we wouldnt need to look on anothers life, to point out their "mistakes or downfalls".Bun Fyah Pon di wicked Dem Bun Fyah on all MURDERERS, RAPIST,LIAR,DECIEVERS OF JAH PEOPLES,FALSE PROPHETS AND BACK STABBERS!!!! Jah RasTafari with out apology.MORE LIFE, MORE LOVE, MORE INITY . Put an end to down pression, hatred, taking of Life.
Love and RASPECT
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wezekana
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« Reply #14 on: November 16, 2007, 07:54:38 PM »

There was a time when Africanrebel06's words and sentiment were sound and should have been accepted, unaltered, I regret to say. An extension in these areas then would have meant certain death, culturally, for either side. There was a time when more than the majority of these 'people' had absolutely no love, respect, compassion or sense of benevolence toward any another than their own kind.

Fortunately, those days are dying, taking with them the remnant of their creations. Rebel, I know some whyte guys who would pick up the thing for you and your mission. I know because we have been through it together and I've seen it, personally. Your hypothesis holds no water. Who moreso than the whytes are enslaved by their own mind-bending shit-stem?

There is another facet to this equation and that, I overstand, you deal with, Rebel06. I, for one, appreciate your soldier's sacrifice. Your posts are amazing hipping(enlightening) me to stuff I wasn't aware of and that I'm mad that I wasn't. However...

No truly effective soldier can be blind to his real enemy... and not all can be chosen by color. 
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